When you meet someone new, you're happy to try the things they like together.
You listen to the music they like and go along to the places they often go, and you enjoy taking in things you didn't know before: 'Huh, this is fun too.'
So you get close to anyone quickly. But because your tastes change completely depending on who you're with, at some point you get confused: 'Wait, what did I actually like before?'
What you're good at
You take in what the other person likes without judging it. You enjoy trying unfamiliar things and you go along with people easily, so people can talk freely in front of you about what they love.
What you often hear
- “You're up for anything.”
- “So what are you into these days?”
What wears you out
A breakup, or even just drifting apart, hits you harder than most. You'd shaped so much of your life around their tastes that once they're gone, you find yourself wondering, 'What do I even do on weekends now?', and it feels like nothing of your own is left in your days.
For the people around you
You're warm, and you come to love what the other person loves. But if you always follow their tastes, they never really get to know you: 'What does this person actually like?'
Worth trying
Once a month, take the other person somewhere you picked. When you, who always follow, lead the way for once, they finally find out what you like.